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I generally agree, however we cannot say that russian youth is just like western youth, only with a lag in post-modernism. There are some local specificities :

- In the field of men-women relations, a lot of women tend to recuse feminism, but only for expecting more from men : they say "feminism is bad, men and women are different", to add immediatly after "a true man will fulfill all the wishes of his partner, she is right to expect everything from him". This is not less immature than western feminism, the same tendancy can be noted here, one of depraving men of all their aspirations,

- Russian youth are much more likely to overuse Instagram, in comparison to their western peers. A lot of the youth culture circles around showing off, whether it's with Instagram, clothes, fancy bars, restaurants, and so on,

- The Russian youth is pretty much totally unaware of the political processes occuring in the West : they still view it as an economically stable, civilized, polite, pittoresque, democratic society. However, they don't have the slighest curiosity of what really constitutes Western societies, what's their culture, except from Hollywood blockbusters. I found that there in general a lack of curiosity in Russia, they only envy Western culture because they represented it like some sort of heaven, but it goes nowhere beyond this point,

- They inherited from the Soviet mentality in that they blame the government for everything. It never comes to their mind that maybe the citizen has some kind of duty too, and that if he wants to improve the situation, he might as well be proactive. Everytime something doesn't go perfectly (for example, the touristic potential of a place is not fully exploited), they blame it on the Russian government. The State was indeed controlling everything 40 years ago, but it's not the case anymore,

- Young men are often playing videogames all day long and women managing an OnlyFans account or a dirty Instagram. By the way, Russian young women often think that they are superior to their western counterparts just by being Russian, they blame them with feminism and other political trends but aren't anyhow more respectful towards men,

- They are not curious towards other cultures, but also not eager to go out of their comfort zone. They rarely try to meet new people, to do new things. I think it has to do with overwhelming role that have mothers in russian families. They pretty much command everything, and the father, if he stays, is completely silenced. As a consequence, stability, comfort, and suspiciousness are the core values. In families where the father leads, core values tend to be adventurousness, independance, and openness. That is not the case in Russia (I think that's a point you could develop, if you wish to),

- They much more often seem to experiment existential void, however I think that it's a general trait in Russia and not only among the youth.

I cannot think of anymore points for now. I need to add that I come from France, so I compare with the french youth.

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This article helps me understand what I've been experiencing here (I'm in the US) with my Slav friends, and in particular with my online Russian teacher, who lives in one of the big Russian cities. She jumped in with the whole "Nyet Voine" business in February, and made a big deal of how terrible Putin was, etc. which confused me, because she is in her early 30's, and champions the beauty of Russian culture and Russian life. I assumed that she would understand Russia's historic mission and greatness.....oh well. After several anti-war/anti-Putin posts she announced that HER HUSBAND was telling her to knock it off, and that from now on her videos and posts would be about other stuff. I had to chuckle; good man to take the young wife in hand before she gets them in actual trouble. But now it makes sense, that she is a young one, went to University, speaks English, works with Westerners, etc. Here in the US the Ukraine thing has really messed up the vibe. Many of the Russian language community are Ukrainians ('cause so many got the hell out of there) and are fully empowered here to support Ukraine and hate on Russia. The refusal to acknowledge the terrible suffering of the Donbas from 2014 to now (the Ukies are still shelling Donetsk and killing random civilians) is absolutely weird and appalling. Glad to hear that not all hope is lost in Russian though.

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