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samoan62's avatar

Collective therapy? Or we just embrace our hatred and choose fight. That seems way more attractive.

I hate anybody that thinks you can just shrug off every transgression and beat everything bad with some kind of vague form of "love" or "forgiveness". Those things are definitely useful virtues to maintain peace and solidarity, but at some point you need to choose "fight" and "hate". There's definitely a balance to be achieved.

In college I had a roommate who was a real dick that I always had to work to forgive and not choose violence. At some point though you realize that no amount of reasoning, forgiveness or other non-violence will work and you NEED to choose fight. There are legitimately bad people in the world, so if you keep forgiving them they WILL take advantage of you. So one day I got so fed up with him that I clocked him in the face at a football game. I wasn't even drunk, but it was definitely stupid to do it there because I was immediately arrested. I was fined $500 and did 8 hours community service, but I don't even care because it had to be done (maybe just not at a heavily patrolled football game) and was totally worth it. All my friends were on my side too and gave me a ton of respect.

Forgiveness is good where it makes sense, but don't be a pussy. Sometimes you need to embrace your hatred and choose "fight". Violence is sometimes the answer.

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Daniel D's avatar

Great analysis. I think psychopaths are about 1% of the general population, but they seem to be close to 100% of the political class. As to "fight, flight, or freeze," freezing may work better against natural predators like bears than fighting or fleeing, but freezing definitely is the wrong response to psychopathic humans who will enjoy keeping you alive while they slowly torture you. Against psychopaths, like our political class, apathy and avoidance are self-defeating; we need anger, hate, and a willingness to fight back against them and their schemes.

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